cos_tools: upgrade go deps (otel and grpc) to fix cves

```
go get google.golang.org/grpc@v1.83.2 go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk@v1.45.0
go mod tidy && go mod vendor
```

BUG=b/568437870
TESTS=presubmit
RELEASE_NOTE=none

Change-Id: I2e8935ba44f7775a24ad6607c5127857748dd962
Reviewed-on: https://cos-review.googlesource.com/c/cos/tools/+/222686
SLSA-Policy-Verified: SLSA Policy Verification Service <devtools-gerritcodereview-exitgate@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Chenglong Tang <chenglongtang@google.com>
Tested-by: Dom Huh <domhuh@google.com>
Cloud-Build: 228075978874@cloudbuild.gserviceaccount.com <228075978874@cloudbuild.gserviceaccount.com>